Random Talks

       A Reality where gender roles are reversed   All our favourite movie heroes are now women. Would you still relate with them in the same way as you used to do earlier? Also, our mothers have now acquired the position of fathers. Have you ever wondered what would have happened if the society was not patriarchal and rather maternal? Would women treat men the same way as we men have treated them now? Can this all really exist in the future? In this blog we shall discuss these questions and stay tuned with me because there’s more multiversic shit coming. In my earlier blog I have illustrated what multiverse is and how what we think of can exist as another universe. So, we found this universe where men and women have now switched places, change is regarding their position in the society where, women still produces babies and men have sperm so, no change in that part. Generally, men are believed to have a strong heart to deal with the world outside whereas, women have a tender nat

  Before diving deep into the concept let’s talk about simple astronomy.  What is a universe? I know most people will just skip as they are either afraid of cosmos or are just uninterested. Here we will not talk about the universe from astronomy perspective using complex words like dark matter, anti matter, energy etc ,rather we will consider universe as everything we see around ourselves.(from a reality perspective)  A little dive into astronomical terms. Covering the very basic(warna ek  duusra puura blog banana padega iske uupar jo tum bich me bore hoke chodh doge) We live on earth which is a planet inside a galaxy. A galaxy is a group of planets ,stars(like sun), meteors, asteroids etc. Many galaxies together form a cluster and many clusters together form the observable universe, observable because it is still expanding and we don't know where it's end is. Other meaning being observable is what you see, unaware of other planets just talking about earth or at a smaller exten

  What is sanity and who is an insane person?  An insane/mad person is simply someone who does absurd things at wrong places like screaming in a social gathering, creating a scene on the road or something like that.  Sanity on the other hand means to stay calm, tolerate others and stay strong at all situations. Ever thought why people behave that way?     Well practically humans are on the verge of becoming extinct, like we have so many problems to deal with - global warming ,plastic ,pollution, population growth, melting glaciers, animal species getting extinct, our mortality, our incapabilities which God has provided us with and then our   mental health issues like depression and suicide tendancies. So, in this era of chaos and destruction isn't it quite normal for our brain to get insane. In the book THE SCHOOL OF LIFE there is a mention of how someone who loses his temper in certain situations is found to be more mature and happy than a person who hides his feelings a

  Have you ever taken weed or tobacco or alcohol? Well I took tobacco once in a hookah and the after effects were amazing. Luckily I am not addicted to it now but, is this kind of addiction good? No, weed addiction is not good and promoting any kind of intoxicating substance is not the motive of my blog, we will just be talking about it's medical benefits, should it be legal and Bhang's significance in Hindu religion. Yes, weed and other substances do have some medical benefits. Says re search. Ayurveda has used cannabis and other drugs to treat diseases like epilepsy and it also helps in relieving pain and stress. Bhang is legal in some Indian states like Madhya Pradesh and Gujrat and people consume it openly. Pharma companies use a certain composition of it as painkillers in their medicines But then, Why does the society sees it in a negative way? Why is Bhang legal and not Charas and Ganja? Weed and all the other drugs are addictive and once a person is addicte

  What is self control? Who are the people who have plenty of will power? What’s different between them and others? So, Self control is controlling your mind to be focused on your goals and not be deviated by distractions. But, self control is equivalent to forcing your mind, rather than moulding it. Now, There are people who have become successful in their fields because of strong discipline. But, those are not the people who use a lot of self control and will power. Rather they are the people who avoid forcing their minds. Our mind gets distracted because we get certain cues or triggers in our environment. example: you are likely to be distracted by phone if you keep it close to you with it’s notifications turned on. You have to consciously think and eradicate your problems in order to achieve something. Successful people just segregate their working space and relax environment. So, technically we are the people who use a lot of self control and will power rather than just avoi

The good and the bad wolves   We all have at least watched once a cartoon where the protagonist talks to his inner conscience and suddenly he is surrounded by two beings one signifying good(peace) and the other signifying bad(anger, generally depicted in red). Let me tell you this really happens! Yes science and religion has proved and said that this type of behaviour exists in us. So, ok we have two voices in us which helps us to choose or take decisions in life. But who do you always listen to? I personally feel like I have two sides in me, one is the good, the kind, who respects elders and women, polite, soft, SANE(I’ll talk about this word in detail in a later blog). Whereas the other one is harsh, egoistic, violent, judgmental , abusive   , whose mind is indulged in sex/violence. Now there are people who are bad, whether their conditioning ruined them or it’s their natural response, they do bad things, and anything they do their bad motive finds a way to show. Like a per

  Author James Clear says in his book Atomic Habits that environment plays a major role in building habits, more than any motivation. The author feels that motivation is fake and that the surroundings affect our habits and our overall personalities. A woman wanted to change the eating habits of his employees which she did by changing the structure of their canteen. She filled fridge doors with water bottles instead of soda cans. Placed water filters in five different corners of the canteen and made soda difficult to reach. people found it difficult to reach for soda cans and were shifted to drinking water instead.  She was able to change their habits without even saying a word of motivation to them.   So try and assign different tasks to different places. For example if you want to make a habit of reading then you can keep your books in sight, beside your bed in order to read before sleep.   The author was able to create a separation between his professional work and personal