My take on YJHD

 YJHD

focusing on the smaller details

 There was a time when I first watched this film. Ranbir Kapoor was a total idol in terms of looks . I was 14 when I first watched the movie and was in 9th standard some things that time were off the track for me but this when I am 18 and still simping over ranbir for his looks. The perception towards the movie is different.
 The first scene where naina talks about her past adventures in manali even though we know at the end it was painful for naina beacuse she didn't got her love, but still she remembers the trip for the pleasant memories, not for the stale ones.
I relate with naina for now being the padhaku kid in class(even though I never got a rank but still worked my ass off) but wants to be like bunny(more confident,wild and social) but being naina isn't too bad after all. Is it?
Naina ki conversation apni maa ke saath kayi logo ke liye reletable hogi, kayi baar hum batana to chahta hain ki hume chutti chahiye change chhaiye par at the same time hum darte hain araam karne se kyunki apni responsibilities nibhani hoti hain(being the smart kid in school grows to be a medical aspirant in sab expectations ka bojh uthake chalte rehna hota hai).
Bunnyyyy!!!!! He wants freedom even though he knew his father won't stop him he is afraid to tell him that he is going to manali or when he stays at avi's home. I know we all need freedom (want nahi need) but telling our parents and then doing it won't make much a difference.at least they now know what are we doing.
Naina gathers some courage and reaches the station and then!! Comes the point of decision (surely these few seconds can decide your whole life) she is not sure whether she should go or not (same responsibilities stuff) jo cheez karni ho karke dekh lo yaar bhale hi wo cheez ethical ya zaruri naa bhi ho.
Our mind wants us to follow the same routine everyday just copy paste the previous day's actions, so try something new( don't worry once or twice won't affect your lifetime habits)
Everytime there won't be a bunny who'll be helping you catch the train sometimes you have to run on your own.
You can see bunny recording videos of the small moments like capturing a little pahadi girl's smile or a local marriage happening around. We often try to find spots or people so that we can enjoy but freedom is in enjoying even the little things happening around you and that is how you can explore the place more efficiently (like bunny got to know about the famous wine of manali)
Raise your hands even though you have zero idea of what's happening like bunny and avi did( seriously they were nothing into the conversation and just raised their hands that's it) and became captains. Sochte aur mauka chala jaata
 We all have the Power to communicate be free be extroverts just don't be sane all the time just think and change yourself like naina changed her entire self from childhood to medical in a single day( the holi incident)
 Dream big(udna daudna and all is ok) but having a happy family with less issues is difficult and important too. Agar tumhara sapna tumhe dara nahi deta to wo dekhne ke kaabil hi nahi hai.
 All those characters are inside us ( sanity like naina, wild side like bunny, expectations from friends family members like avinash and finally ek tarfa pyaar karna from aditi even though yeh aapko barbaad kar dega par mai barbaad hona chahti huun)
Is it wrong to expect things in any relationship? When people give their time and effort they want care and affection in return. Avi wanted a friend in bunny who supports him takes care of him but bunny wasn't even present when he needed help. See expectations are normal, sometimes fulfilled sometimes not. But we can't force somebody to return the affection and care we showed to you. When expectations fail then it gives pain,hard pain which you can't tell and people won't understand too. Maybe not expecting is better.
 We all dreamt something, even if you dreamt of sleeping 18 hours a day that's considered a dream. Now do we all have the guts and courage to sacrifice for your dream. Like if you like Bunny's life can you live without any family or friend's contact,living a fast life and can't stop. Every goal requires some sacrifice give it and achieve your goal.
 Some things will always be left so let's stop sometimes for those gone up things as we know we can't control or achieve everything.
Lastly some decisions are tough. Choosing your dream or you love and not always you can have both!!!
Finishing with this I hope you have courage to choose you struggle (passion) in professional world or in personal life. No matter struggle will always be there

 



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